Signs That a Man Wants To Dump You

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Surprising research results indicate that men rarely initiate a break up. This does not mean that they don’t get fed up with a relationship it just means that most of them resort to behaving badly in the hope that the woman will get the hint and leave. The problem of course is that you are not a mind reader and you are also a woman. Being a woman you expect that a man would be straight up like you would be as women generally tell their partners when they want out of a relationship. So what are some signs that your man wants to dump you?

1.       Your inner alarm goes off. This is your intuition telling you that all is not well. You know in your gut that something is not right in your relationship. This is usually the first sign that all is not well in your life and you need to pay attention. Do not talk yourself out of this feeling as it’s your body’s natural sensor of danger. Do not assume that you are being overly suspicious (unless you have a tendency to excessive and unreasonable fears about your relationship). Many women have ignored this God given sensor to their detriment and hurt.

2.       Your partner is missing in action. This is the most obvious sign that a man has a new interest and that interest now occupies whatever time was meant for you. Your partner is simply unavailable to you and he gives you lame and implausible excuses on why he is not available. When you look at the past he was always looking to spend time with you but now you seem to be an afterthought in his life. You need to be careful at this stage to ensure that he is not legitimately occupied somewhere else. Has his job changed? Is there a crisis in his life? If nothing has changed except his unavailability to you then you have cause for concern.

3.       You do all the contacting. He no longer cares enough to contact you. Another sign that a man wants to dump you is his complete lack of communication with you. Are you the one always calling? Does he never call you back even when he promises too? When all your communication is one sided you may be the only one in the relationship as he is hoping that his lack of contact will let you know that he has moved on.

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4.       Lack of concern. Emotional disconnect is another sign. He no longer cares about the things that are important to you and he no longer involves you in the things that are important to him. Are you clueless about the specifics of the things that are important to him like his job? Did he invite you to the last office party or did he tell you some tale about partners not being invited this year? You may be amazed to realize that he is a complete stranger to you.

5.       Mr nasty. He is plain nasty to you and may even be demeaning in his speech toward you. This is the most obvious sign that a man wants to break up with you. He is expressing his disgust with you so that he can hurt you enough to make you leave.  

To be sure that there really is trouble in paradise then you need to see most of these signs. If you see only one of these signs it may be a wake-up call to you that your partner is unhappy in the relationship and you need to act before it’s too late.

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Your relationship is in trouble. You haven’t broken up or anything like that but something is amiss.... you can’t quite put a finger to it but your intuition tells you that if things don’t change you are headed for difficult times or even a heartbreak. Here are some easy relationship fixes that you could try...

1.       Reconnect. Wait until your partner is relaxing and sit quietly with them and help them relax. What helps them relax? A good massage? What about you sitting quietly, focusing on them and just listening to them without interruptions or suggestions? You need to know and do whatever it is that helps your partner relax. You aim is to reach out to your partner and to start rekindling the connection you once had.

2.       Spend time together. When your partner is involved in doing some mundane thing like making dinner or washing the car, join them and just chat with them. Remember how you did this when your relationship was new? You enjoyed just hanging out with them. You need to recapture that enjoyment of being together doing the mundane things that make up daily life.

3.       Let the adrenalin flow! Is there some adrenalin filled activity that you or your partner has always wanted to try but were either to afraid to try or have just kept postponing? This is the time to do it. You want an activity that gets the fear/flight juices flowing as this will raise the passion between the two of you if you do it together. And this will rebuild your emotional connection in unexplainable ways.

4.       Take care of one another. This seems so obvious but we get caught up in life and forget our key partner. Make an effort to take care of your partner. What makes them feel special? Can you make an effort and do it well for them or can you treat them to it if it’s beyond your capabilities?

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5.       Increase the passion level. You know your partner, what peaks their passion? Then find creative ways to go about doing this.

6.       Let the admiration flow. Let your partner know each day what it is that you love about them. And be sincere. Of course there is much about your partner that is annoying to you but change your focus and start thinking and focusing on what you like about them and tell them. Start small and as your get better you will see them in a more positive light. Remember that genuine appreciation results in a rise in the positive energy in your relationship.

Relationships are hard work but if you can get over yourself then you can implement some of these easy relationship fixes and see some of the happiness that you desire.